ROBB CLAYTON
the alleged liar, the alleged abuser, the alleged narcissist


Beginning in July of 2024, I was in communication with a man I met on a dating site — a man who presented himself as divorced and trustworthy. Only later did I learn that Robb was married, and that many of the things he told me were untrue. What I experienced in Canada, and during our time together in Kalispell and Bigfork, Montana, constitutes both emotional and physical harm. What happened was not only morally wrong, but also illegal.

What makes this even more disturbing is that I have substantial documentation — hundreds of hours of recorded conversations, videos, texts, photos, and receipts. I did not originally set out to collect this material, but I’m grateful I did. I now understand that being cautious, especially in emotionally vulnerable times, can be critical.

One video, taken shortly after an incident in Canmore, Canada, shows blood on my person and on the bedding. I still possess items from that night, which contain physical evidence. I’ve kept them not for shock value, but as potential support in any legal proceedings. Based on my research, Canada has no statute of limitations on sexual assault, and I have already taken steps to consult with those familiar with cross-border reporting of such incidents.

Robert Roy Clayton, who goes by Robb,  has manipulated me emotionally, often gaslighting me about my own grief, my trauma, and my reactions to the things he said and did. At times, I felt trapped — unsure of whether I was overreacting or being unfair. But now, with some distance and the support of others, I see the patterns more clearly.

To be clear: this is my personal experience and account, and I understand that these are serious matters. I believe strongly that sunlight is a disinfectant. If this ever goes to court, I am prepared for that, and welcome it — because the truth should come out.

The contents of this post and all related materials are protected under U.S. and Canadian law, and everything shared is either based on my direct experiences or presented with the word "allegedly" as appropriate. If challenged legally, I will gladly defend myself with the full body of documented evidence I’ve collected.

About This Site

Lies of a Married Montana 'Believer' in Christ is dedicated to shedding light on the deceitful actions of Robb Clayton from Kalispell, Montana, previously from Oakhurst, California and previously from the Pennsylvania/Ohio area. The man tries to hide behind being a Believer in Jesus Christ. He says he is a Believer, and I reminded him that even the demons believe --- they just do not follow Him. We strive to expose the hypocrisy and falsehoods that lurk beneath the surface of Robb's carefully crafted persona, and warn the world of his past crimes, in hopes of preventing future crimes.

The information on this site has been taken from the hundreds and hundreds of hours of audio and video recording with Robb; I have proof in the forms of video and audio tapes and text messages to backup the information on this site. To cover my legal butt, this statement and the word 'allegedly' will be added on every page. Go ahead Robb, have your son Max sue me, as you have threatened! I want proof to come out in the courts and not just in the court of public opinion! Sick your lawyer son on me; I have the truth on my side. It is none of this idiotic 'my truth' either. There is one truth.

Below is a very small piece of the video, documenting, after the fact, the sexual assault in Canmore, Canada. The full video, complete with Robb's voice, asking if I am okay and apologizing, will be posted soon.  It would not be right to throw everything up online until he has an opportunity to get his lies together and persuade everyone into upholding his FAKE 'Godly' man lies, and giving him the ability to paint me as a liar.

The truth behind the YWAM (Youth With A Mission) self-proclaimed big shot Robert (Robb) Roy Clayton and how he sexually assaults women then gaslights them and manipulates them to keep his dirty secret(s), making them believe his sexual assault was asked for, and that it was not an assault, that it was his way of showing his affection, and that he was sorry and only wanted to be with me. He used the fact that my late husband was unfaithful, to gaslight me into believing I am throwing my late husband's sins onto Robb - that I am only imagined Robb sexually hurt me because I cannot let go of my late husband's trysts with OnlyFans. If Robb is to be believed, his daughter-in-law's sister is an OnlyFans model so Robb probably has first hand experience. Robb says I blame Robb as my way of holding someone accountable for what my late husband did, since (according to Robb) my late husband is dead, I cannot blame him, and I need to blame someone. Robb gaslit me to believe he was sorry, that we were in a relationship, and said I was understanding of his needs, the way his ex was not (she is not an ex yet, and when I met him SHE had not even filed for divorce --- he wanted to stay with her and holds GREAT anger over her divorcing him and taking half of everything! Robb says this is why he has intense counseling sessions. Oh, he is so concerned over what she wants in their divorce, including his precious business, consisting of two FEDEX routes and a carwash he hopes to open with his son, and other ventures. Lies from the beginning. once a liar, always a liar! 

What is with all the blood and bruises on me, in videos, doctor exams, and on the washcloth I brought on the trip and used to clean up with in Canada...foreplay? That washcloth is sealed and in my safe deposit box. Did the blood and bruises miraculously appear so I would be able to blame Robb, since my unfaithful ex-husband died before I could confront him about his actions? In my opinion (gotta CYA), he choses women who have been in bad situations in the past, so he can control them and the narrative. Robb knew, when I met him, that I had lost my unfaithful husband of 28 years, my mother, and my newly married husband, all in a timeframe of 14 months. He knew I was distraught and never thinking clearly, due to the grief overload and tragedies in my life. (Why did Robb feed me alcohol, knowing I was in these deep stages of grief and sadness, if not for his own purposes? Why did Robb feed me alcohol after he knew I had stomach surgery in August, less than six months prior, and that even a miniscule amount of alcohol would make me drunk? Why did Robb lie to me at the Detroit Red Wings and Calgary Flames game and tell me the drinks were non-alcoholic? He even got the young lady seated in front of us to join in on his lie. Thank goodness she thought it was funny, recorded it, and sent me a copy of the video.) Add to that, my 30 year old son became so inconsolable over the loss of his dad, grandmother, and new step-dad in such a short period of time, and his guilt over not being able to attend the memorials or see them before they passed, caused him to take his own life a few weeks after I met Robb. I needed a friend, not a man who took me to Canada and forced himself on me after he fed me liquor at the bar at the Fairmont, the condo in Canmore, the NHL game in Calgary, and in his Jeep at various times. I was naive and trusted him, only to wake up to him in my bed, on top of me, and you can imagine the rest. But wait! There is more! You ladies know that I 'asked for it', or that he 'could not help himself', or that I was 'making something vile out of something meant to make me feel better', and on and on. Sure, that is why it was so violent that I bled for days and had bruises on my hips and thighs! Good thing I saw a doctor as soon as I got home to Texas, and GREAT thing that I took a video (a short clip is on this site and the larger video is safe. This video was taken a few minutes after the assault, showing the bed, my bloodied lower body, and in the larger video, Robb's voice can be clearly heard asking if I am okay and if I am still bleeding. He is also apologizing profusely, while I can be seen in the video climbing under the covers to 'hide', before I called my dear friend, a nurse, to ask her to help me.) She saw the bed, the room, and me, on FaceTime and she told me to video everything and keep evidence until I got home safely! Sadly, his family may be caught in the crosshairs, but Robb refused to admit any of the things he did. He blamed me for drinking, said I did not have enough to be drunk (I had pyloroplasty surgery to repair my stomach less than a year prior and I was not supposed to drink, due to: Rapid absorption of whisky...are of social and possibly legal significance. alcoholic affects will be greater. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/4731439/)

I am here to help warn others and uncover the manipulation and deceit. I have other videos, texts, FaceTime videos, and audio files to share slowly, as to not overwhelm people all at once.

Help me help others. Share your story and stand against abuse.

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